Sang ayah dan ibu sangat marah dan menyesal bila mengetahui anak perempuan mereka hamil.
"Siapa si bedebah tu," jerit sang ayah, sedang si ibu menangis. "Suruh dia datang sini!"
Si anak pun telepon le mamat yang bertanggung jawab. Setengah jam kemudian sebuah kereta
Ferrari merah berhenti di depan rumah. Seorang lelaki separuh baya keluar dari kereta, memberi
salam lalu masuk kerumah.
Lelaki itu berdepan dengan mak dan ayah perempuan yang telah dihamilinya.
Dia berkata, "Saya lelaki yang telah menghamili anak anda. Tapi terus terang saya katakan saya
tidak dapat menikahi anak anda kerana isteri saya tak membenarkan. Bagaimanapun, saya tetap
bertanggung jawab atas perbuatan saya. Sekiranya anak anda melahirkan seorang bayi perempuan
saya akan wasiatkan untuknya dua buah supermarket, sebuah rumah banglo dan wang tunai
RM5 juta. Sekiranya dia melahirkan anak lelaki saya akan wasiatkan untuknya dua buah kilang,
dua buah supermarket, dua buah rumah banglo dan wang tunai RM10 juta. Tapi sekiranya anak
anda keguguran apakah yang harus saya lakukan?"
Sang ayah berfikir. Siibu berhenti menangis. Akhirnya sambil menepuk bahu lelaki itu sang ayah
berkata, "Kalau camtu hang cuba le lagi."
10 Point to maintain friendship not friendshit!
1. FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO A FRIEND, NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF A FRIENDSHIP.
- If being happy is your only motive for wanting someone to be your friend, then you are not being a real friend. Don't get caught up in keeping tabs on who has given most in the friendship. Give to your friends regardless of how much they give to you.
2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
- Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be, rather than drag each other down. They are happy when other people achieve their goals.
3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
- Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one sure way to destroy a friendship. Forgive your friend and move on.
4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
- This is one way to show concern for others. If you really care, you will tactfully point out a specific example for his own good. But once you've brought the problem to your friend's attention, don't harp on it all the time. Don't walk away from a friendship when you see some of your friend's faults. Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that nobody is perfect.
5. BE RELIABLE.
- When you say you are going to be there, be there.
6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS.
- Real friendship does not mean you always have to be together. It may be tempting to have a fun person all to yourself, and feel threatened when your friend spends time with others. If you are afraid to let your friends out of your sight, you are probably afraid of losing them. Good friendship will endure time spent apart. You and your friends may learn to appreciate each other even more.
7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
- Celebrate with them if your friends are excited about something. But don't be there just for the good times. When your friend is upset about something, give them your full attention. Most of the time, what friends really need is a sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.
- If being happy is your only motive for wanting someone to be your friend, then you are not being a real friend. Don't get caught up in keeping tabs on who has given most in the friendship. Give to your friends regardless of how much they give to you.
2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
- Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be, rather than drag each other down. They are happy when other people achieve their goals.
3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
- Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one sure way to destroy a friendship. Forgive your friend and move on.
4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
- This is one way to show concern for others. If you really care, you will tactfully point out a specific example for his own good. But once you've brought the problem to your friend's attention, don't harp on it all the time. Don't walk away from a friendship when you see some of your friend's faults. Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that nobody is perfect.
5. BE RELIABLE.
- When you say you are going to be there, be there.
6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS.
- Real friendship does not mean you always have to be together. It may be tempting to have a fun person all to yourself, and feel threatened when your friend spends time with others. If you are afraid to let your friends out of your sight, you are probably afraid of losing them. Good friendship will endure time spent apart. You and your friends may learn to appreciate each other even more.
7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
- Celebrate with them if your friends are excited about something. But don't be there just for the good times. When your friend is upset about something, give them your full attention. Most of the time, what friends really need is a sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.
Handbook 2009
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.(Alhamdulillah)
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least:
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.(Alhamdulillah)
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least:
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.
kawin!
assalamualaikum wbt.
sebut pasai kawin ni,tahun ramai toi kawan2 aku yg kawin.. bob ayaq,ce'in,mat khalil,yuih jamil,ikhwan pendek,bear+munna, tharyl bang long,farid tonggek ngn ramai lagi tak disenaraikan.. alhamdulillah la kan,semua dah pakat sampai seru ngn jodoh dah.. dulu dok sembang2 ja,la ni jadi kenyataan dah.. tu tak kira kawan2 aku yang sebaya ngn aku.. siap yg ada anak 2-3 orang dah pon.. aku ja yg tadak anak lagi,anak buah ada la 3 org.. hahaha.. takpa,belum sampai lagi.. sapa takmau kawin toi dak?hehehehehe.. apa2 pon aku ucapkan tahniah kepada kawan2 aku yg akan melangsungkan perkahwinan tak lama lagi dan semoga berbahagia keanak cucu.. amin.. huhuhuhu.. kepada kawan2 aku yg bakal jadi bapak nanti,tahniah! hehehehe.. especially bob ayaq,mat kalil ngn shahet.. ni yg setahu aku la.. yg len depa tak inform pa pun.. tggu ja la.. wawah!
okla,sampai sini dulu story kita.. nanti sambung kisah seterusnya plak.. huhu..
sebut pasai kawin ni,tahun ramai toi kawan2 aku yg kawin.. bob ayaq,ce'in,mat khalil,yuih jamil,ikhwan pendek,bear+munna, tharyl bang long,farid tonggek ngn ramai lagi tak disenaraikan.. alhamdulillah la kan,semua dah pakat sampai seru ngn jodoh dah.. dulu dok sembang2 ja,la ni jadi kenyataan dah.. tu tak kira kawan2 aku yang sebaya ngn aku.. siap yg ada anak 2-3 orang dah pon.. aku ja yg tadak anak lagi,anak buah ada la 3 org.. hahaha.. takpa,belum sampai lagi.. sapa takmau kawin toi dak?hehehehehe.. apa2 pon aku ucapkan tahniah kepada kawan2 aku yg akan melangsungkan perkahwinan tak lama lagi dan semoga berbahagia keanak cucu.. amin.. huhuhuhu.. kepada kawan2 aku yg bakal jadi bapak nanti,tahniah! hehehehe.. especially bob ayaq,mat kalil ngn shahet.. ni yg setahu aku la.. yg len depa tak inform pa pun.. tggu ja la.. wawah!
okla,sampai sini dulu story kita.. nanti sambung kisah seterusnya plak.. huhu..
CAN'T SMILE WITHOUT YOU
You know I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel sad when you're sad
I feel glad when you're glad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile without you
You came along just like a song
And brightened my day
Who would have believed that you were part of a dream
Now it all SEMS light years away
And now you know I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel sad when you're sad
I feel glad when you're glad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile
Now some people say happiness takes so very long to find
Well, I'm finding it hard leaving your love behind me
And you see I can't smile without you
I can't smile without you
I can't laugh and I can't sing
I'm finding it hard to do anything
You see I feel glad when you're glad
I feel sad when you're sad
If you only knew what I'm going through
I just can't smile without you
i dedicated this song to my lovely tikah. love you to the max!
boss aku salah eja!
dalam tengah isi borang,boss aku tersilap tulis maklumat jadi makmulat! huhuhu.. dia silap,tapi dia yang bagitau aku.. lauk la kan.. aku apa lagi,amik gambaq terus laaaa.. dan dengan itu,telah dipaparkan di page aku ini dengan selamatnya.. hehehe..
makna APRIL FOOL buat org2 islam!
Assalamualaikum wbt.
Walaupun 1 April dah berlalu beberapa hari yang lepas..
Aku terpanggil untuk berkongsi cerita di sebalik hari tersebut di sini..
Ikutilah cerita sedih di sebalik April Fool's Day sebagai renungan bersama. Setiap kali
menjelang 1hb April, sesetengah orang kita begitu taksub dengan budaya 'pandang ke barat'.
Berbalik kepada perayaan April Fool's Day ini, adalah ia mula dirayakan sewaktu kejatuhan kerajaan Islam di Sepanyol. Setelah bertapak berkurun-kurun lamanya di Granada, Sepanyol, kerajaan Islam akhirnya runtuh diserang tentera-tentera Kristian.
Penduduk-penduduk Islam di Sepanyol (Moors) terpaksa berlindung di dalam rumah masing-masing untuk menyelamatkan diri. Tentera-tentera Kristian bagaimanapun tidak berpuas hati dan berusaha untuk menghapuskan orang-orang Islam dr Sepanyol.
Penduduk-penduduk Muslim ini diberitahu bahwa mereka boleh berlayar keluar dari Sepanyol
dengan selamat bersama-sama barang-barang keperluan mereka dengan menggunakan kapal-kapal yang berlabuh dipelabuhan. Orang-orang Muslim yang risau sekiranya
tawaran tersebut merupakan suatu penipuan, telah pergi ke pelabuhan untuk melihat kapal-kapal yang dimaksudkan.
Setelah berpuas hati, mereka membuat persiapan untuk bertolak. Keesokan harinya (1 April), mereka mengambil semua barangan yang telah disiapkan menuju ke pelabuhan.
Pada masa inilah pihak Kristian mengambil kesempatan untuk menggeledah dan kemudian membakar rumah penduduk-penduduk Islam ini.
Mereka juga tidak sempat untuk menaiki kapal kerana semuanya dibakar. Pihak Kristian kemudiannya menyerang kaum Muslim dan membunuh kesemuanya; lelaki, perempuan serta anak-anak kecil. Peristiwa berdarah yang menyedihkan ini kemudiannya diraikan oleh tentera Kristian.
Keraian ini akhirnya dirayakan setiap tahun bukan sahaja di Sepanyol tetapi juga di serata dunia.
Yang menyedihkan, orang-orang Islam yang jahil mengenai peristiwa ini turut meraikan April Fool's Day tanpa menyedari mereka sebenarnya merayakan ulang tahun pembunuhan beramai-ramai saudara seIslam mereka sendiri.
Semoga Allah sentiasa membuka pintu taubat untuk kita.
Petikan drpd Risalah Fikrah
Peliharalah Allah, nescaya Allah akan memelihara kamu....
wallahhua'lam
Walaupun 1 April dah berlalu beberapa hari yang lepas..
Aku terpanggil untuk berkongsi cerita di sebalik hari tersebut di sini..
Ikutilah cerita sedih di sebalik April Fool's Day sebagai renungan bersama. Setiap kali
menjelang 1hb April, sesetengah orang kita begitu taksub dengan budaya 'pandang ke barat'.
Berbalik kepada perayaan April Fool's Day ini, adalah ia mula dirayakan sewaktu kejatuhan kerajaan Islam di Sepanyol. Setelah bertapak berkurun-kurun lamanya di Granada, Sepanyol, kerajaan Islam akhirnya runtuh diserang tentera-tentera Kristian.
Penduduk-penduduk Islam di Sepanyol (Moors) terpaksa berlindung di dalam rumah masing-masing untuk menyelamatkan diri. Tentera-tentera Kristian bagaimanapun tidak berpuas hati dan berusaha untuk menghapuskan orang-orang Islam dr Sepanyol.
Penduduk-penduduk Muslim ini diberitahu bahwa mereka boleh berlayar keluar dari Sepanyol
dengan selamat bersama-sama barang-barang keperluan mereka dengan menggunakan kapal-kapal yang berlabuh dipelabuhan. Orang-orang Muslim yang risau sekiranya
tawaran tersebut merupakan suatu penipuan, telah pergi ke pelabuhan untuk melihat kapal-kapal yang dimaksudkan.
Setelah berpuas hati, mereka membuat persiapan untuk bertolak. Keesokan harinya (1 April), mereka mengambil semua barangan yang telah disiapkan menuju ke pelabuhan.
Pada masa inilah pihak Kristian mengambil kesempatan untuk menggeledah dan kemudian membakar rumah penduduk-penduduk Islam ini.
Mereka juga tidak sempat untuk menaiki kapal kerana semuanya dibakar. Pihak Kristian kemudiannya menyerang kaum Muslim dan membunuh kesemuanya; lelaki, perempuan serta anak-anak kecil. Peristiwa berdarah yang menyedihkan ini kemudiannya diraikan oleh tentera Kristian.
Keraian ini akhirnya dirayakan setiap tahun bukan sahaja di Sepanyol tetapi juga di serata dunia.
Yang menyedihkan, orang-orang Islam yang jahil mengenai peristiwa ini turut meraikan April Fool's Day tanpa menyedari mereka sebenarnya merayakan ulang tahun pembunuhan beramai-ramai saudara seIslam mereka sendiri.
Semoga Allah sentiasa membuka pintu taubat untuk kita.
Petikan drpd Risalah Fikrah
Peliharalah Allah, nescaya Allah akan memelihara kamu....
wallahhua'lam
Kaizoku?????????
Peminat fanatik anime ONE PIECE. sudah sampai ketahap ini. setelah berbincang bersama,kami telah berjumpa dengan dokter sedut lemak untuk mengubah muka kepada watak2 dalam anime tersebut.. hehehehe.. maka,jadilah begini.. harap maklum!
hahahahaha. well,im sorry dude.. helmeppo suit you best bro!
herry?mr.2 bon clay-sama!
mudd?love cook,kuro-hasi no sanji!
bearu,as you wish bro.. no one take your place as roronoa zoro! santouryu!
